My Ambition?

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Different people have different ambitions. Some want to be rich. Some wish to become leaders of the country to gain honor. Some desire to be great scientists. There an others who are mainly led by a spirit of adventure. The latest craze among young boys and girls is to go to foreign countries.

Their aim in life is to earn a lot of money within a short period. I am a human being. I too have my own ambition. My ambition in life is not wealth, power or high social status. I am too modest a young man to aim at any of these things. My ambition is simple enough. It is the service of the poor and the down-trodden. Ever since I attained adolescence, it has been my joy to help those who are in trouble. Many a time I have left my work at the weeping of the neighbors. I have spent hours and hours together to remove the cause of their sorrow. My heart weeps at the sight of people in trouble. I do my best to help those who need my help. And. what a joy it is to me to find that I have been of service to some one.

To work for others gives me a sort of peace of mind. This being the case I have decided once for all to spend the rest of my life in the service of the suffering people.

My ambition is to become a good doctor. For this purpose I have made up my mind to join a good medical college after passing Pre-medical Examination. I am determined to be a doctor. I shall be a doctor, different from the doctor who grows fat at the expenses of others. I shall never be on the lookout for fresh cases. I take oath not to fleece my patients of their hard earned wealth. I am sorry to find doctors who deceive their sick brethren. Doctor’s business is after all service and I am determined to do so.

As a doctor it will be my object to charge only reasonable money for the medicine or medicines supplied to my patients. I do not want to collect any wealth for myself. I need money only for my bare necessities. This money I shall be able to have by having a good practice. I will work hard. I shall earn reputation of being a good all-round doctor.

Ex to become a doctor, i wanna hv a boy as my leader of life……i want korean boyx((( lol but its my dream not ambition, ok. then…..

It is clear from what I have written that service of humanity will be my motto. I shall not run after riches. I shall always help the poor and the needy. May God help me to achieve it ! See ya!

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My future boyyyyyy :p

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moving on from the past relationship?

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Letting go of a relationship that you were certain would last forever or that you just knew was ”the one” is painful. At the same time, letting go will be the most empowering thing you’ll ever do. Loving another is a lesson, in and of itself. Learning to let go and make peace with things you cannot change is vital. Letting go may involve you rethinking boundaries and negative relationship patterns, becoming more an assertive or deciding to end contact with toxic people or others who
have harmed you. Learning to understand that you can’t force people to do things, or to love you in return, in the way you want, will set you free.

Chilean poet Pablo Neruda wrote many years ago,

”Let us forget with generosity the people who cannot love us.”

Some people won’t have the ability to love in a healthy way. We can heed Neruda’s advice and wish them well on their journey, while saying farewell. Letting go of a
past relationship is a lot like mourning a death. You’ll notice denial, anger, rationalization, obsessive thoughts on the relationship and the other person, among other things, and eventually, acceptance.

Here r 10 ways that you can let go of a past relationship and move on.

1. Accept that the relationship has come to an end.

This is the hardest but most important step in letting go of a past relationship. If you are not aware and present to the fact that it’s over, you won’t be able to process the grief and loss. You need time to get in touch withnyour pain and understand your feelings. Acceptance is a
form of closure that you shouldn’t ignore. Mindfulness-based meditation could be helpful. During this time, you may find solace in making art, embracing your favorite hobbies and friends.

2. Take your time to process the pain.

It’s your right to mourn the relationship, grieve its death and release the ensuing sadness. Let yourself process the rejection. Don’t avoid the more intense parts of this transition. Don’t force yourself to get over it in a rush. This will help you understand yourself better. If you are a more sensitive person than most, and struggle with issues of abandonment, this may be a good time to seek out a counselor or psychologist that can support you and help sort out remaining wounds from past relationships. Do remind yourself frequently that healing is not a race.

3. Don’t internet-stalk or make plans of revenge.

Confucius once said, ”Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.” And in matters of heartbreak, this is very fitting. You may be so hurt and confused that you want the other person to experience what you are going through, and some may even encourage you to do
so. No one wins in the game of revenge. Trying to hurt another because you are upset is immature, dangerous and a waste of time. If you are busy making revenge, you are not healing. Avoid obsessively following and finding them on the internet and in real life. The last thing you need to see is them off doing things you once enjoyed together, or pursuing another partner. Reading their posts can also keep you stuck in false hopes.

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4. Don’t try to be ”just friends”, if the relationships end was not mutual.

Pushing for a platonic friendship right after the breakup of a romantic relationship is too much, too soon. No one can turn their emotions on and off like that. If you or the other person can, this can be a marker of an emotional issue that may require professional help. Remind yourself again that you cannot fix, change or do someone else’s healing for them. Suddenly reseting the relationship back to a casual friendship is not helpful in letting go. If the other person is pushing you to be their friend and remain in constant contact, it could signal their own issues with abandonment, control or poor boundaries. They may also be pushing for your friendship so they don’t have to feel bad or guilty for breaking up with you. You are not required to be friends or in contact with the person. If the relationships’ ending was mutual, you may choose to attempt a friendship with the person later on, but you’ll
still need your own time and space to decide what is in your best interest. Keep in mind, some people will need to be loved from afar.

5. Don’t maintain an intimate relationship with your ex.

This seems obvious to some, but for many this can easily become a pattern. Someone breaks up with you, and you agree to continued intimacy after they’ve rejected you as a partner. This is unfair. It not only keeps you stuck in the dead-end relationship, but may give one of you the idea that the other person does want you back and the relationship will come back to life. The person initiating the intimacy may be thinking that this is just until they find someone else they want to pursue. This is heartbreaking for the person who was convinced it meant something more. Continuing an intimate relationship with
your ex also won’t allow for you to make room for other relationships that may be presented to you. You will experience love again, and with someone who wants to commit to you and be in your life, not just for the “fringe benefits”. Don’t settle.

6. Fall in love with your life, again.

Reconnect with your friends, family and favorite hobbies. Do something you’ve avoided doing out of fear. Refocus your energy. You may have given so much of yourself to the relationship that you neglected yourself and your favorite things. Be aware that your self-esteem will be fragile, and you may do a fair bit of crying as you get
through this. It’s ok. Make lists of dreams and goals for the coming year, and go out and do them. Volunteer in your community, go on a road trip, hike a mountain, get in touch with nature, write poetry, read a book, sit in silence, take a class, focus on your career, go back to school — the options are endless. Be who and what you’ve always wanted. Write down things you are proud of yourself about, and revisit the list when you feel down. As you start on this journey of self-love and acceptance, you’ll find yourself attracting quality friendships that
allow you to be your authentic self.

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7. Reflect on what didn’t work in the relationship.

Once you’ve made it past the grieving and acceptance, you’ll be able to see things more clearly. It may be that when you think about the relationship, you may realize there were red flags or things that didn’t work well for you. Use this to better all your relationships — romantic
or otherwise. Maybe you or the other person were passive-aggressive , conflict-avoidant , co-dependent or people-pleasing . Endings can be amazing beginnings.

8. Don’t rush into another relationship.

Some might try to replace the last relationship as soon as possible to avoid feeling loss, loneliness or any pain. Some will keep another person waiting in the wings, as one relationship is ending. Don’t be the other waiting in the wings, and don’t make someone else your rebound. It’s unfair to use others as you try to get over your ex. Unfortunately, you won’t be able to game the system of a broken heart. If it was simply that easy, no one would ever need to read an article about letting go and moving on from a relationship that’s ended. When the time is right, you’ll know it. With the time and space you’ve allowed yourself, you’ll be able to better understand if this new relationship is one that will be healthy and positive.

9. Remove their photographs, gifts and love letters.

Waking up to their photographs and love letters won’t aide you in letting go and moving on. You’ll continue to romanticize them and the relationship, even if it was not a great one. You may want to put the photographs, letters and gifts out of reach in a special keepsake box,
under lock and key. If this is too much of a temptation or the person was particularly toxic, you may want to burn the treasures as a symbolic way of releasing all of the negative energy. You can also repurpose the items and turn them into an art piece expressing what’s occurred. Donating or recycling the items are other options.

10. Remember that there is not always a “one true love” for everyone.

Some people come into our lives for a brief period of time to teach us a lesson or expose us to a new way of thinking. We will keep reliving the same things until the lesson has been learned. While you may have loved someone, and continue to do so, they will likely not be the only person you will ever love. If it is supposed to happen, it will. You don’t need to beg someone to love you or care for you, in the way you do for them. Open up yourself to the possibility that this ending is the beginning of something far better than you’ve ever experienced before.

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Urban Zakapa – 니가 싫어 [ I Hate You ]

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it’s really nice song….great voice with touchy lyric…you should listening it! So enjoyed the lyric with hangeul, romanization, and translate.

If you wanna watch da video music you can click the blue link on the below :
urban zakapa – i hate you

HANGEUL & ROMANIZATION

나는너에게사랑을구걸하지않았어
Na-neun neo-e-ge sa-rang-eul gu-geol-ha-ji anh-ass-eo
진심을원했어
Jin-shim-eul weon-haess-eo
마지막으로널봤던날도
Ma-ji-mak-eu-ro neol bwatt-deon nal-do
널원하지않았어
Neol weon-ha-ji anh-ass-eo
진심을원했어
Jin-shim-eul weon-haess-eo
상처받은내마음과
Sang-cheo-bad-eun nae ma-eum-gwa
더럽혀진그때추억
Deo-reob-hyeo-jin geu-ddae chu-eok
날바라보던니표정
Nal ba-ra-bo-deon ni pyo-jeong
다너무싫어
Da neo-mu shilh-eo
난니가싫어
Nan ni-ga shilh-eo
불안했던우리모습
Bul-an-haett-deon u-ri mo-seub
지켜내려던내모습
Ji-kyeo nae-ryeo-deon nae mo-seub
다너무후회가돼
Da neo-mu hu-hoe-ga dwae
잘몰랐던나
Jal mol-latt-deon na
난니가싫어
Nan ni-ga shilh-eo
나는너에게사랑을구걸하지않았어
Na-neun neo-e-ge sa-rang-eul gu-geol-ha-ji anh-ass-eo
진심을원했어
Jin-shim-eul weon-haess-eo
마지막으로우리만난날도
Ma-ji-mak-eu-ro u-ri man-nan nal-do
넌진심이없었어
Neon jin-shim-i eobs-eoss-eo
진심을원했어
Jin-shim-i weon-haess-eo
상처받은내마음과
Sang-cheo-bad-eun nae ma-eum-gwa
더럽혀진그때추억
Deo-reob-hyeo-jin geu-ddae chu-eok
날바라보던니표정
Nal ba-ra-bo-deon ni pyo-jeong
다너무싫어
Da neo-mu shilh-eo
난니가싫어
Nan ni-ga shilh-eo
불안했던우리모습
Bul-an-haett-deon u-ri mo-seub
지켜내려던내모습
Ji-kyeo nae-ryeo-deon nae mo-seub
다너무후회가돼
Da neo-mu hu-hoe-ga dwae
굳게닫힌나의맘과
Gud-ge dad-hin na-eui mam-gwa
돌이킬수없는우리
Dol-i-kil su eobs-neun u-ri
서로를아프게했던
Seo-ro-reul a-peu-ge haett-deon
그때가싫어
Geu-ddae-ga shilh-eo
난내가싫어
Nan nae-ga shilh-eo
시간이더흐른다면
Shi-gan-i deo heu-reun-da-myeon
서로를이해할수있을까
Seo-ro-reul i-hae-hal su iss-eul-gga
하지만그때도우린
Ha-ji-man geu-ddae-do u-rin
만나지말자
Man-na-ji ma-ja
이런내가싫어
I-reon nae-ga shilh-eo
나는너에게늘진심이었고
Na-neun neo-e-ge neul jin-shim-i-eott-go
너도그때만큼은그랬을거라믿어
Neo-do geu-ddae-man-keum-eun geu-raess-eul
geo-ra mid-eo

TRANSLATE

I didn’t beg you for love
I just wanted your true heart
Even on the day I saw you for the last time
I didn’t want you
I wanted your true heart
My scarred heart and
My tainted memories of that time
Your face looking at me
I hate it all
I hate you
Our nervous relationship
Me, trying to protect it
I regret it all
I didn’t know better
I hate you
I didn’t beg you for love
I just wanted your true heart
Even on the day I saw you for the last time
You had no true feelings
I wanted your true heart
My scarred heart and
My tainted memories of that time
Your face looking at me
I hate it all
I hate you
Our nervous relationship
Me, trying to protect it
I regret it all
My tightly shut heart and
Our relationship that can’t be turned back
The times we used to hurt each other
I hate those times
I hate you
If more time passes
Will we be able to understand each other?
But even then, let’s not meet
I hate myself for being like this
I always showed you my true heart
I believe that you did so too at least during those times

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ANNYEONG!!! *dadahdadah*

Dream-Catcher

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Dreamcatcher is a handmade object based on a willow hoop, on which is woven a loose net or web. The dreamcatcher is then decorated with sacred items such as feathers and beads.

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Native Americans believe that the night air is filled with dreams both good and bad. The dreamcatcher when hung over or near your bed swinging freely in the air,ncatches the dreams as they flow by.

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The good dreams know how to pass through the dreamcatcher, slipping through the outer holes and slide down the soft feathers so gently that many times the sleeper does not know that he/she is dreaming. The bad dreams not knowing the way get tangled in the
dreamcatcher and perish with the first light of the new day.

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”Even infants were provided with protective charms. Examples of these are the -spiderwebs- hung on the hoop of a cradle board. These articles consisted of wooden hoops about 3½ inches in diameter filled with an imitation of a spider’s web made of fine yarn, usually dyed red. In old times this netting was made of nettle fiber. Two spider webs were usually hung on the hoop, and it was said that they “caught any harm that might be in the air as a spider’s web catches and holds whatever comes in contact with it.”

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How the Dream Catcher is made :

Using a hoop of willow, and decorating it with findings, bits and pieces of everyday life, (feathers, arrow heads, beads, etc) the dream catcher is believed to have the power to catch all of a person’s dreams, trapping the bad ones, and letting only the good dreams pass through the dream catcher.

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True Friends – Friendship

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Friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between two or more people. A World Happiness Database study found that people with close friendships are happier.

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“A true friend walks in even whole word walks out….”.
For me true friends’ll never ever leave you no matter what happens. it’s not important whether he/she is miles apart from you, as true friends’ll always have you in their heart forever.

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True friends is someone who’ll stay with you even if everybody turn their backs on you. Friends have been through hell together nothing will ever come between them that includes marriage of either one they
melt into the family. They’re siblings in a way that know each other inside and out. True friends’ll always believe in you even though you no
longer believe in yourself. their will always bring out the best in you.
True friends’ll not need any explanation as their’ll always understand. Most of all, true friends is someone who is willing to share their time with you. Time shared together has always been important, as time is something no one can ever buy nor take back. The moment persons shared their time with you, they’d already shared a part of their life with you.

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Most of all, true friends is someone who is willing to share their time with you. Time shared together has always been important, as time is something no one can ever buy nor take back. The moment persons shared their time with you, they’d already shared a part of their life with you.

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Miracles in December!

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Miracles in December!
i think.. its already a half of year since they’re released the music video.
“Miracles in December”

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yes.. absolutely i’m addicted with EXO especially Chanyeol & Sehunniiee♥ if you don’t know them you can see my last post about exo on nature republic photo shoot. soo.. in this post, i would like to share you the miracles of 12 boys in miracles in december music video that will make you melted….. here it is!

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보이지 않는 널 찾으려고 애쓰다..
들리지 않는 널 들으려 애쓰다..

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보이지 않던 게 보이고..
들리지 않던 게 들려..

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늘 나밖에 몰랐었던 이기적인 내가..
네 맘도 몰라줬던 무심한 내가..

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너 나를 떠난 뒤로..
내겐 없던 힘이 생겼어늘..

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이 초라한 초능력..
이젠 없었으면 좋겠어 우~

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나밖에 몰랐었던 이기적인 내가..
네 맘도 몰라줬던 무심한 내가..

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이렇게도 달라졌다는 게..
나조차 믿기지 않아..
네 사랑은 이렇게 계속 날 움직여..

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난 생각만 하면..
세상을 너로 채울 수 있어 음~

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눈송이 하나가..
네 눈물 한 방울이니까..
단 한 가지 못하는 것은..
널 내게로 오게 하는 일..

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이렇게도 달라졌다는 게..
나조차 믿기지 않아..
네 사랑은 이렇게 계속 날 움직여..
시간을 멈춰 네게 돌아가..
추억의 책은 너의 페이지를 열어..
난 그 안에 있어 오~
너와 함께 있는 걸..

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아주 조그맣고 약한 사람이 너의 사랑이..
이렇게 모든 걸 (내 삶을 모두)..
바꾼 걸 (세상을 모두)..
오~ 사랑이 고마운 줄 몰랐었던 내가 오~
끝나면 그만인 줄 알았던 내가 오~
너 원했던 그 모습 그대로..
날마다 나를 고쳐 가..
내 사랑은 끝없이 계속될 것 같아..

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시간을 멈춰 (오! 이제 나)..
네게 돌아가 (네게 돌아가)..
추억의 책은 (오! 오늘도)..
너의 페이지를 열어..
난 그 안에 있어 오~
그 겨울에 와있는걸..
보이지 않는 널 찾으려고 애쓰다..
들리지 않는 널 들으려 애쓰다..

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Plagiarism Needs a Better Definition

Big agreeeeee!!😍😍😍🙋👍👌

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There’s this parable that economists always tell.

Your car breaks down and you take it to the mechanic. He opens the hood and looks at your engine for a few seconds. Then he takes out a little hammer and taps it on the top. Suddenly it works again.

‘That’ll be $100,’ he says.
‘But all you did was make a little tap!’ you protest.
‘The tap, that’s $1,’ he says. ‘Knowing where to tap, that’s $99.’

Like everyone else who writes for a living, I’ve been reading the Fareed Zakaria plagiarism allegations with a knot in my stomach.

Here’s what we know so far:

In 2012, Zakaria blatantly yoinked a Jill Lepore (love her!) paragraph in an article he wrote about gun control. He got busted and he apologized.

Dude has written for legit every publication, so his current employer and his alma maters investigated his old work for copy-pastage. They…

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